In my last post I confessed I had been virtually supporting the man in my life and how it’s just not affordable for me. Thanks for all the good advice!
I’m proud to tell you all that since that time I have been doing much better. I have helped him a little but now I am making him work for everything. I have paid him for a couple of tasks I can’t get to-like, since the van isn’t working, taking the bus across town to deposit checks that absolutely needed to get into the bank. I really needed help with that so it made sense to pay him a bit to do it.
I am also teaching him to put my craigslist ad up. It should be done three times a day and since he is in the library a lot, he might as well do it, since it is harder for me to get to…I spend my day on my bike now.
And last night I needed to take the bus kind of far away for a little job and I told him I would buy him dinner if he came with me. He says he would have come anyway but…maybe he would have…maybe he wouldn’t have. I was glad to have him along because I actually had something potentially dangerous threatening….actually it was a someone. More on that in my next post.