More Drama

One of the reasons I moved into my van is that I knew that I would have a hard time dealing with roommates.

Maybe you guys and gals remember that a couple of months there was money stolen at the house I live in?  Well I thought it was over but it all got dredged up again last weekend.  How exhausting.

It’s really loud here during the day so it’s hard to get work done.  The main problem is that the loud person is my landlady and she’s unpredictable so her voice “triggers” me even when she isn’t on a rant.

I know I have to get over this.  She’s not evil incarnate.  I actually like her sometimes but….it’s the drama.  I have a hard time dealing with drama.

This is harder than living in the van was for me.  I’m ready for advice!!!!  Help!

About Maureen, Living in a Van

I'm a free-sleeper living in a van in the prettiest part of the world. I do this partly due to financial circumstances and partly because I love a good adventure.
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7 Responses to More Drama

  1. lucy says:

    Use earplugs, if she’s not ‘ an evil incarnate’ just ignore her !! Do you actually want to move back into the van ? I would make a list of pros. & cons for both, living in a house & living in your van…. the list with the most PROS. is the winner.

    Good luck !
    The best to you today & always…

  2. Pretty much what Lucy said. Where’s your serenity? Also, with time to look at your prior van experience, can you improve on that? One thing I have learned is that I cannot change others. I have to change something about myself in order to adapt to reality.

    • lucy says:

      Agree 100 % with U with Calvin, we can NOT change others, if we change some aspects of ourselves the results can be positive, after all it would be practicing what Darwin proposed: ‘ the survival of the fittest’ , the survival of those that possess the ability to change & adapt.

  3. Ryu says:

    Ha. If she even suspected you for 3 seconds, she will have doubts forever. That is the human reality. And if you turned out to be innocent, she’ll resent you proving her wrong.

  4. Angela says:

    I wish I had advice for you Maureen but really, just sympathy. People suck, even the good ones. I will never understand why it is so hard for people to just behave themselves, be quiet, and keep from impacting other people.

    Well, I guess if it were me, I’d say something about you are needing to work in some peace and quiet and can she help you achieve that?

    Hope something changes in that regard for you.

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