More About My Boyfriend

I’ve decided not to drag out this story.  This is real life and real life isn’t always easy to blog about.  I certainly don’t want to sensationalize anyone’s agony.  That wouldn’t be right.

My boyfriend believes he was injured as a child and that a large amount of money was settled on him in a lawsuit.  He feels that this money has been misappropriated and that is why he is homeless.

I spent four months looking into it and I have hit nothing but brick walls.  I have come to believe that my boyfriend is under a strong delusion about this and I’m trying to help him have some semblance of normalcy in his life.  I have never dealt with this sort of thing before but I am doing the best I can.

I don’t know if he will continue to be my boyfriend or not but I’m going to help him as much as I can.  I hope you all won’t think I’m a bad person to not want to marry and have a life with him, in his current condition….I just don’t know if I want a lifetime of what I have been through.  He is fixated on this money and when I indicate that he may be mistaken about the situation, he gets very angry and thinks I’m one of the bad guys.  It’s very difficult to deal with for hours at a time.

I am beginning to take care of me more now.  I am going to take a math class and a Spanish class soon.

I don’t know if I will continue blogging or not.

Thanks for listening…..when you comment, please try not to preach at me too much.  I feel like an idiot but I still have my health, my brain and my van so I will be alright.

Thanks again Faithful readers.



About Maureen, Living in a Van

I'm a free-sleeper living in a van in the prettiest part of the world. I do this partly due to financial circumstances and partly because I love a good adventure.
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2 Responses to More About My Boyfriend

  1. Ryu says:

    Live and learn. Probably the only way to learn is to make mistakes. You’re one step closer to perfection!

    Blogging is good. Your writing will improve and you will know yourself better. It’s like an online journal! You invested alot of time in building this. If you throw it away, it will have been a waste.

    In a year, this event won’t even matter. Life goes on.

    • Maureen says:

      Oh I hope you are right that this won’t be a big deal in a year. It seems like a very heavy burden at the moment.

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